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Working With Your Micromanager - The Amplifier

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 Working with a micromanager can be frustrating and demotivating, especially when they seem frantic or ask for things they don’t understand. However, there are things you can do to change the story. Use this information to understand what makes your Amplifier micromanage and how to adapt your communication style. Ultimately, Amplifiers want to be able to confidently relay status and progress up the chain, probably to someone who is micromanaging them. If you haven’t yet, check out this overview of micromanager types: It’s your fault you are being micromanaged . The Amplifier Amplifiers are often influenced by the dynamics within the organization, particularly in larger, multi-layered structures. They strive to avoid surprises in meetings and may hover until they obtain the information they seek, inadvertently amplifying the pressure they feel onto you. Understanding this dynamic can empower you to manage your relationship with them proactively. Amplifiers are driven by seve...

Working With Your Micromanager - The Taskmaster

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Working with a micromanager can be a stressful experience. Especially when the manager constantly asks for updates and pushes you to meet that next date. While this can be distracting, aggravating, and demotivating, there are things you can do to make it bearable. Use this information to understand what drives your Taskmaster and how to adapt your communication style. Ultimately, Taskmasters micromanage because they are uncomfortable with uncertain timelines and outcomes. If you haven’t yet, check out this overview of micromanager types:  It's Your Fault You're Being Micromanaged . The Taskmaster Taskmasters are one of the more common micromanager traits. These managers need to know the plan and how much progress has been made. If they don’t see every step the team takes, the project's outcome is not certain enough to satisfy them. Taskmasters hold many meetings and impromptu check-ins to get updates on short-term progress. Taskmasters are battling some key concer...

Working With Your Micromanager - The Doer

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Working with a micromanager can be an unfortunate experience. Especially when that manager used to do the same job as you, they can get quite controlling or directive about how to get the work done. While this can be frustrating and demotivating, there are things you can do about it. Use this information to understand what drives your Doer manager and how to adapt your communication style. Ultimately, Doers micromanage because they are uncomfortable with not knowing the daily details about how the work is getting done. If you haven’t yet, check out this overview of micromanager types: It's Your Fault You're Being Micromanaged . The Doer Micromanager One of the most common micromanagement styles is the Doer. These are the managers who were once good at their team's job. More often than not, these people were promoted into management for their talent at getting the job done and struggle with letting go. These micromanagers will usually give you detailed steps and checkl...

It's Your Fault You're Being Micromanaged

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Are you frustrated with managers' over-involvement in your projects? Do they check in on your status too often? Does your manager think they know more about the work than you do? What about those times when they redo your work for no reason? All of this is your fault; follow along to learn how to get your manager off your back. You have to wonder with how busy our managers must be, how do they find so much time to control everything? The Micromanagers To answer this question, we need to explore why different managers end up micromanaging. Over time, I have observed various kinds of micromanagement, each with distinct ways and reasons for managers to get over-involved. These are not one-size-fits-all situations; at some point, every manager will probably exhibit each of these personas. The Doers One of the most common micromanagement styles is the doer. These are the managers who were once good at their team's job. More often than not, these people were promoted into management ...

Stop Managing Up and Start Showing Your Work

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Do you find yourself struggling to manage up? Are you frustrated with the idea of managing your manager? Building a strong, collaborative, and trusting relationship with your management is critical to career development and a healthy work life. However, we should not do this by managing up. Do it by showing your work. Let’s talk about what we get wrong when we try to manage up and how showing your work will lead to better results. Don’t Manage Your Manager It’s time to change our language around this critical career skill. Nobody expects you to manage your boss; ultimately, it doesn't make sense. It is not your job to manage your boss. Your job is about doing great work and ensuring people know what is happening. Let's review how managing up creates the wrong relationship dynamic and where we miss the point. The Relationship Dynamic We often don’t think about how much information our managers are working to keep track of daily. Many people mistakenly believe their managers shou...

Hey Boss, Stop Solving the Team’s Problems!

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This is a weird situation. You were likely promoted into leadership because you excelled at problem-solving and getting things done. You have naturally used those skills to help your team succeed, but at what cost? Do you want a vacation, but your team stalls when you are not around?   Are there projects you can’t get done because you are busy answering questions for your team? Have you been overwhelmed by the number of decisions you have to make? How well does your team accomplish goals without you consistently following up with them? What’s the common factor in all those questions? That’s easy—it is you! Your choices and actions keep your team from sharing the burden of problem-solving. There is hope, though. You can start changing how you interact with your team to help them run smoothly, even if you cannot be immediately available. Your Job Is Not to Solve Problems First things first, it is time to acknowledge that your job is no longer about solving problems.  You are sup...